Nothing is so severe it cannot be remedied at this time. Make great efforts on a daily basis. Do not worry about succeeding or failing. Just make the effort.
The love between you is far more powerful and healing than either of you are fully aware of. As awareness increases, you will be greatly humbled by its powers. In this love there is the greatest capacity for healing. Never forget the source of this love.
All these attachments come and go. You cannot ignore them and no one is asking you to “suffer silently”. It is best, of course, that you are honest about these things. Then both of you work towards reduction of such impediments, problems, obstacles. These are obstacles to harmony, and harmony is most important here.
LOVE is the be all and end-all of our effort. On the path of Light that is the Fivefold Path given through the Vedas, LOVE is the passport.